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Goals review; Exhaustion

May 2nd, 2026 at 07:26 pm

Happy May!  I'm hoping we get a nice stretch of spring-like weather where it is warm but not hot.  We've had a smattering of warm days, even a couple of hot ones in April where it hit 90, but the past couple of weeks, it's still been highs in the 50s and 60s for the most part.

Tax season of course is over, but working in financial planning as I do, my work calendar gets busier during tax season but is governed more by the schedules of the two advisors that I do the planning work for.  They don't coordinate with each other (and won't; I've mentioned it at every annual review, but the general answer is that's just how things are--and the annual Financial Advisor Well-Being survey also shows that lack of control over one's own time is the major dissatisfaction for those who hold positions similar to mine.

In any case, the couple of weeks before 4/15 always involve an additional administrative burden of sending K-1s (tax information reporting forms for partnerships) out to clients and their CPAs, and the last two weeks had me preparing for 9 different meetings (6 would be the expected workload for this time frame).  I've had a few nights of working to 9, 10, or even 11 pm, and on weekends have found myself in bed at 6:30 to 7:30, typically for a rest, then awake for a couple of hours to watch something on Netflix or Youtube before falling back asleep.

I did schedule myself for some blood tests last Saturday and found that some of my values are out of whack, in particular, ferritin and vitamin D.  I found some "iron strips" made of cellulose that you put on your tongue to melt, which bypass the digestive system and are reported to help boost levels more quickly.  [Ferritin is the storage version of iron; notably, my hemoglobin levels have been nornal.]  I'm waiting for those to arrive by post.  I'm hoping that supplementing will make me feel less drained.  I took last Friday off and even with a 3-day weekend, I really just managed to get the normal grocery, gas ($54 bucks for a tank despite the 30 cents/ gallon discount--I live a mile from work so I only need to get gas about once a month, so the sticker shock of the war effect hadn't hit until now), laundry, and yardwork done.   The next two weeks are lighter in work load (2 meetings this coming week and 1 so far for the week after that--so it does average out to the expected 3 per week over the long haul).  I'm hoping that that plus adding in some supplements will help me feel more energetic, since right now I don't have the margin to do anything other than the essential.

This leaves me behind on my goals.  The financial goals go along ok (mortgage is down to $17,500, assets (house, car, portfolio) are up to $1.25 million).  I've not been doing a good job of tracking expenses on a daily basis as I had hoped, but using Empower's Personal Wealth (formerly Personal Capital)  does a good job of helping me track after the fact.  I can see that most months, I'm bringing in about $6k in income (net of taxes, health insurance contribution, and retirement savings) and spending about $4.5k, with a big additional bump in non-retirement-plan savings in January, the month that my annual bonus came through.  The "cash stash" money market that I started at the beginning of the year to build up sinking funds and emergency savings hit $10k this week.  So all's well on the financial side.

My health goals I've let go, sort of.  I have managed to do some runs, 1-3 a week, though usually just 1-1.5 miles.  I started a new 5k training program this morning (virtual "race" day is 5/30).  I completed 2.11 miles in the 55 minutes, so hopefully with more consistency in training, I'll get back to being able to do the 3.11 (5k) in that time, which i was able to do at the beginning of the year.  I've giving myself grace on adding in the resistance training until I'm feeling more energetic.

And the decluttering goal has mostly been a no-go so far--I've done a little bit, but nothing with any consistency.  Again, I'm giving myself grace until my blood test levels look more normal, and real progress on this goal was never going to happen during tax season in any case.

My best friend sings in a choir and their spring concert is tonight at 8 pm.  (There was no way I was going to make it last night at 8 pm).  I have a phone call appointment with a friend at 5 and will try to take a nap either before or after in hopes that I can rouse myself enough to make it to the concert.

4 Responses to “Goals review; Exhaustion”

  1. Tabs Says:
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    Ah, I hope you feel better soon. What about your Vitamin D level? There are D3 pills too, not sure if you take those, or if your levels aren’t too severely low?

  2. Dido Says:
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    Thanks, Tabs. Yes, my Vitamin D is below range at 28, when "in range" is 30 or above and optimal is 50-80. That's something to start supplementing right away too (along with vitamin K2.

  3. Kym Fisher Says:
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    If it makes you feel any better, a few years ago my Vitamin D was at 5 and according to one of my sisters, hers was literally 0!

  4. Dido Says:
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    Kym, yikes, that's scary! I trust for that both you and your sister are doing better now.

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